Add _filter_kwargs method to IStructure for better kwargs handling

[cogsworth37]

Summary

Major changes:

Fixes materialsproject/pymatgen#4551

Checklist

• Google format doc strings added. Check with ruff.
• Type annotations included. Check with mypy.
• Tests added for new features/fixes.
• If applicable, new classes/functions/modules have duecredit @due.dcite decorators to reference relevant papers by DOI (example)

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